Enough swiping. Let’s l’chaim.

We’re flipping the script on dating in NYC. No endless apps, no ghosting. Just curated dinners and gatherings with real conversations.

Dinners & tables

Friends raising a toast around a How Jew Meet dinner table

A How Jew Meet dinner table set with name cards and menus

A long How Jew Meet dinner table full of guests

Two guests smiling at a How Jew Meet dinner

Two guests talking over dinner at a How Jew Meet table

Friends smiling together on a How Jew Meet night out

A long How Jew Meet dinner table set with menus, We Should Meet cards, and candles

Parties

A packed How Jew Meet party under disco balls

Guests on a crowded dance floor under party lights

How Jew Meet poster: curated events built around intention to connect

HJM balloon letters over a bar decked out for a How Jew Meet party

A crowded How Jew Meet party with red heart balloons

Welcome sign for How Jew Meet’s Spring Fling

Your people, IRL.

You fill out the ‘about you’ & we’ll handle the ‘who’s who.’

Name*
First Name Last Name
Phone number*
Email* example@example.com
When's your birthday?* Date
Are you NJB or NJG?*
NJBNJGOther
Who are you hoping to be matched with?*
MenWomen
I'm open to going out with people within the age rangeblanks* toblank.
What neighborhood do you live in?
How do you identify Jewish-ly?*
Culturally JewishReformConservativeOrthodoxJust here for the vibesOther
Where did you go to college?*
What do you do for work?*
Drop your Instagram handle — or your LinkedIn if you’re not on Instagram.*
Where are you from?*
What’s your height? Don’t add the extra inch your mom brags about.*
My friends describe me as...*
Loyal, reliable, and always down to celebrate the little wins.The one who makes sure everyone gets home safe.Outgoing and extroverted - I’ll talk to anyone, anywhere.A good listener who people come to for advice.Other
Give us one fun fact or conversation starter about you. Our hosts might use it at the table.
Favorite restaurant in NYC?*
What’s your ideal NYC weekend activity? (Choose at least 2)*
Bars + nightlifeConcerts + showsStaying in + relaxingFinding New Spots + exploring
What do you usually do in your free time? (Choose up to 3)*
Exploring new restaurants or coffee shops ☕🍝Fitness / sports / yoga / running 🏋️‍♀️Reading / podcasts / writing 📚Traveling / weekend trips ✈️Volunteering / community work 🤝Cooking / hosting dinners 🍳Binge-watching shows / movies 📺Going out with friends (bars, concerts, comedy shows) 🎶Outdoor activities (parks, hikes, beach trips) 🌳Other
If politics matter, what party do your values align most with?
DemocratRepublicanIndependentPolitics matter, but it will not impact my dating life.
Do you drink?
YesNo
So, the famous question: "What are you looking for?"*
Looking for a serious, long-term relationshipOpen to dating and seeing where it goesJust looking to meet new Jewish friends / communityOther
Any dealbreakers we should know about?
Prove you’re jewish in 1 (funny) photo.* Browse Files Drag and drop files hereChoose a file
Is there anything else you would like us to know about you or is important to you?
Which nights usually work for you? (Select all that apply)*
MondayTuesdayWednesdayThursdayFridaySaturdaySunday
What are you up for?*
DinnersPartiesBoth
How did you hear about How Jew Meet?*
FriendInstagramTikTokOne of our eventsOther
Please list if you have any dietary restrictions and/or allergies.
I agree to receive SMS updates from How Jew Meet about my account, matches, and event logistics. Msg freq varies. Msg & data rates may apply. Reply STOP to opt out, HELP for help. See our Terms and Privacy Policy for more details.*
Yes, I consent
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Enough swiping. Let’s l’chaim.

Dinners & tables

Parties

Your people, IRL.

YOUR PEOPLE, IRL.